It doesn't really matter to me as long as he's not like, morbidly obese. I don't find myself attracted to guys who are rail-thin too breakable.. My man is 6'3" and is sexiest in my not-so-humble opinion between lbs. Less than that doesn't look right on his frame, and more like if he were to weigh in at lbs. Maybe I like heavier guys because I like feeling delicate and feminine. Seriously, I'm totally teeny I'm only 5'2", and I weigh lbs Then again, I am a total sub, if that matters.