70 BDSM Humiliation and Degradation Ideas for Your Submissive
90 Creative Ideas for Erotic Humiliation & Degradation
When he's come, he must carefully remove it, not spilling a single drop. Mistress turns the condom inside out, emptying it into the slave's mouth. Then She drops the rubber into his mouth. If She cares to participate, Mistress ties a thong to the chain between the clamps and jerks on it to encourage Her slave. Of course, She forces him to keep stroking himself for quite a while before She lets him come. If he loses his erection, he is punished.
Recently my boyfriend asked me to be more dominate in bed and to my surprise I quite enjoyed it. He likes more of the verbal humiliation and being degraded but will take a little physical punishment. Before I answer this question, a few points to clarify. Domination is about being in control, having the authority. What it sounds like you are asking about are topping activities — which can be lots of fun!
Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the mixed and powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself, as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. It can be verbal or physical, and can be relatively private or public. Often it can become ritualized , and unlike some sexual variations it can also be easily carried out over a long distance or online.